Expectations vs. reality...
Can be frustrating when symptoms and flare ups get in the way of plans, events, projects...life in general
How I adjust expectations living with an autoimmune disease:
đ I really thrive on having a workout schedule planned for the week
â I'll plan a less intense form of exercise or time to rest (still a plan!)
đ Thereâs nothing I love more than eating dinner with friends
â at the last dinner I was at with friends I didnât have the quesadillas that everyone else had. I prepared something else yummy I could enjoy and share with others! They loved the chocolate chia pudding for dessert!
đ I love filling my calendar with weekend getaways, dance performances, hikes and brunch with the girls
â I just have to be ok with cancelling because of whatâs most important (hint: health!). I'll get to do those things another time when Iâm feeling better
đ I love working and spending my hard earned money on trips, skin care and cool experiences
â I choose to plan financially for medical bills and medications so I never have to worry about money in an emergency situation
đ I love say yes to every invitation-weddings, parties, bar mitzvahâs etc ( pre covid)
â I canât show up and expect that the caterer knows my dietary needs. So I eat before hand and pack snacks in my purse đ #squirrel
Whether you are newly diagnosed or have been living with a chronic disease for years, issues of expectations vs. reality will always pop up. So instead of avoiding life all together, adjust!
I hope these few suggestions are helpful to you too!